Edit: May 2, 2013
Edit: January 7, 2014 What I wish I knew when I made this list. Baby is 7 months old.
All of this is still pretty overwhelming but we think we have begun to figure some practical things out. The Toys-R-Us online registry was recommended by a couple of folks but the website was sloppy and not particular user-friendly. Plus we received a wedding gift that was purchased there--it was defective and just needed to be exchanged. They refused. I never, ever intend to support this company ever again. There are too many other businesses that DO care about customer service!
Amazon is much better. It is easy to see and look over and the options of related items are really neat to see.
I have now returned to TRU and BRU at different locations and have had great experiences.
BabyRegistry: http://www.amazon.com/registry/baby/RR9FZ737TC5Y
We've got:
37 bibs
We use them like crazy! Snaps on them is wayyy better than velcro. If you are sewing some, I'd recommend it. The Velcro destroys things in the wash.
2 pairs of sandals and 2 pairs of sneakers
Several newborn-3 month sized clothes, onsies, full-coverage do-hickeys, some shirts, some pants
30+ burp cloths
Used like crazy for about 5 months, now used often
8 AIO newborn diapers (cloth diapers that are self contained)
These were perfect and then, once outgrown, used without the insert all summer as swim diapers. Don't buy too many--they do outgrow them in a couple of months. The bigger all-size diapers were really too big until then.
Some cloth diapers without covers-experimental ones I have sewn from internet patterns to try out.
3 pairs of breast pads
I never really leaked. We use these in the cloth diapers that absorb slowly. If the diaper is advertised as being designed to keep your baby feeling dry, expect that it will absorb s-l-o-w-l-y. If you kid pees a bunch at once, it can overwhelm the slowness. These along with some pad doublers solved the problem.
One drop-in bottle
You can use the Lanisoh bags in these just like the old-style Playtex nursers.
2 Complete outfits for baby 3 month sized
3 complete outfits for babies 6 month sized
3 outfits for babies 1 year sized
8 Regular receiving blankets
6 Keepsake receiving blankets
The blankets were used like crazy and are still used when we go out. He stopped liking to be swaddled at about 5 months.
Bathing towel-apron
Kind of handy. We still use it sometimes.
3 belly bands for supporting his navel (Peruvian baby fashion)
PITA
Convertible carseat
Baby HATED this and driving was torture for me. At 3 months, I bought an infant seat that he still uses. It immediately made all the difference and I could see his head in the carseat mirror
20+ Reusable cloth baby wipes
We use them all the time.
5 pairs of baby socks
Most baby socks suck. The only brand that stays on is Robeez Kick-Proof. They're cute and He could not get them off at all until he was 7 months old. It began to be his mission in life at 2 months to try--first by rubbing one foot on the other and then later by pulling.
Baby pacifier medicine-giver
Baby bottle medicine-giver
6 pairs of socks
4 med sized onsies
year sized outfit with matching bib
Nose frida
Contoured changing pad for a changing table (We plan to use the dryer as our changing table)
Great item. I made a designer cover that was perfect until we bought a really perfect Halo cover that has "wings" to swaddle the baby. He started rolling over at 2 months and this made it much easier to diaper him.
Swing
Baby didn't care for it after the first month.
Lidded (baby-food) ice tray
Winner!
1 bottle of baby sunblock
Baby teether
A few baby books :)
Pooh and Eeyore
Animal Babies
Are You My Mother?
Animal Colors
Some wooden letter/number blocks
A noisy toy (I couldn't resist--it was on sale and looks like fun!)
WINNER!
Snappi -5
Unnecessary for us. My husband hated them. The most practical fold for us was just to twist it and use the cover to hold the flat or prefold.
What is and how to use a Snappi - You'll laugh!
Glass bottles
WINNER!
Flat diapers - cotton, bamboo, or hemp -6
Prefolded diapers - 5
Plastic lidded bin for soiled cloth diapers plus two sized zippered wetbags for this
We put a big brick under this to raise the height. It works alright but we'd prolly get a regular trashcan with a lid in the future.
Car seat hanging organizer for stuff that is handy to have in the truck
Pacifiers
He only liked the one-piece hospital kind and loved them for about 3 months then only chewed on them after that.
An umbrella stroller with adjustable handles--With traditional umbrella
strollers, the height is for very, very short people and anyone who is
normal sized will get a backache quickly. Giant strollers that are huge
and take up all the space where you are trying to use them are horrible
and usually (IMHO) just to show off when used indoors. If it can't be
lifted one-handed, it is impractical.
Just now starting to use this. We used carriers/wraps most of the time before.
Real Nappies sample pack
booster seat (high chair)
We finally bought a real high chair. The little one is not so practical.
sun shades
Baby hangers (for clothes, not the baby-ha!)
We really like these.
Beanie monkey
7 onsies
Pacifier cuddler
WINNER!
Very cool skull romper
3 pretty diaper/burp cloths
Floaty-spinny-bath-ball-toys
WINNER!
Gift certificate-Amazon
Gift certificate-Amazon
Gift certificate - Wal-mart
Contoured changing pad for a changing table (We plan to use the dryer as our changing table)
Breast pads
Hate these! They somehow flipped over in my bra and I ended up with the sticky side against my skin. The ones I made were much more comfy.
Bottle brush
Get one with a nipple brush, too.
Waterproof diaper covers (5) in newborn size
Cotton toy ball
Baby pants-2
Baby gowns-4 (These were awesome when
Isaac was tiny--he loved kicking at them with his legs and stretching in
them--I made some cool ones from old T-shirts)
4 swim diapers/ covers
Wetbags (Washable waterproof zipper bags to put used diapers in when we are on the go)
2 is enough for us. Bright red makes them visible. Don't expect the daycare to have a clue.
We need: (Used stuff/garage sale items are fine--we are big on recycling and appreciate extended-use items)
Waterproof diaper covers (3 or 4) in bigger sizes
Breast pump (I've been bidding on eBay for this one--I am determined to get it for around 40$ instead of the new price of 125$!)
I ended up with 4--I'll make a specific post about this.
Changing pad - washable/foldable for on the go
Winner!
Baby sunblock
Baby first aid kit / meds
More socks
Back seat mirror to see the baby in his car seat from my own rear-view mirror
Gotta have detachable headrests for these--ggggrrrrr......
Pacifiers (We'd like a few different ones so that he is accustomed to sucking on different shapes and won't freak at the bottle so much when I go back to work)
Pacifier clip - 3 or 4 T
he ones available to buy these days suck. The suspender clips do NOT stay on more than a few seconds. I make good ones as baby gifts now.
Breast milk storage bags to freeze
Lanisoh!
We'd like:
A traditional play pen--they aren't sold any more so it would have to be found in someone's attic or garage
Graco Pack-n-Play is perfect. Cosco is a PITA. Get the good one. Really.
Gerber Graduates rest easy spoons--these are highly recommended.
Baby buddy 1st toothbrush
At 6 months, he started enjoying this and it gets use every day.
Red Cross nail clipper with magnifying glass (My eyes aint so hot these days)
Meh. The magnifier didn't help and any small clippers are just as good.
Baby toys that aren't just colored plastic
Drop in bottles to use with the milk bags
We don't want:
Diaper pins
Dreft-laundry soap (We mix up our own laundry soap)
Diaper rash cremes or ointments--These ruin cloth diapers
Coconut oil is perfect!
We plan to make:
Mei tais (2 or 3) baby carriers
Winner!
T-shirts